A lot of guys that I’ve met, especially those that either like me or are liked by me, are kinda retarded in the love department. I’m not saying every guy is, but a lot of them are.
Well, I wouldn’t say they’re retarded, it’s just they seem kind of bratty when it comes to relationships. And I think it all starts with the whole “men are better than women thing.” Theory time!
So it’s drilled into everyone’s heads at an early age that men are dominant, men are powerful, and men are the better sex of the two. Females are supposed to be submissive and below men. I absolutely hate that, but anyway, that’s what a lot of people think. Why else are women still not exactly treated equally as men? Because of this being drill into everyone’s head, men subconsciously think that women will immediately do whatever they want. Not exactly like that. But what I’m saying is, if a guy likes a girl, he may subconsciously feel that the girl is obligated to immediately like him back. I have three examples already lined up in my head, though I refuse to name names. However, I’m pretty sure they know who they are. If they don’t, then they’re pretty freakin retarded.
All three of them did the exact same thing: They started to like me, and they all asked me out, and I turned them all down. Afterwards, each of them have a similar yet different reaction. Two of them use their own unique methods of trying to get me to go out with them… I won’t go into detail about it. The third one didn’t seem to try and woo me, but he grew overly sensitive at every little tiny thing that I did that gave him a tiny hope of me liking him. All three of them did the same thing though: they blamed me in a sense for not liking them and going out with them like they wanted.
Well, just because someone likes me, why would that mean I have to drop everything and immediately date them? It makes no sense, especially if I don’t even like the guy that way. It would result in a disastrous relationship that would leave all parties involved feeling hurt.
I don’t really know if a guy who doesn’t like you can be considered bratty, but they can sometimes be freakin assholes. They’ll treat you like complete crap just to get you to stop liking them, at least, I’ve had a couple of experiences like that. Not all of the guys I’ve liked have done that to me, some of them are okay with me liking them, and we both ignore that and continue to be friends. Those guys I feel are actually mature.
So that’s the end of my thinking about guys and love. Unfortunately for me, I haven’t been lucky enough to win the heart of any guy that I’ve actually crushed on, and instead have been winning the hearts of people that I don’t like that way, or have even never freakin seen before. You gotta love it right? *sigh* It’s frustrating. But I’ll just continue to be patient, I suppose. Going out with the wrong guy just because you want a boyfriend is just not a good way to go about doing stuff like that, and I’d rather wait years to find a guy that I like who’ll like me back and just going out with any one.
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